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From “Instantaneous” Healing to Loving, Transformational Relationship

Upon my return to faith as a Prodigal daughter God brought such miraculous healing to me from the symptoms of Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I soaked in my miracle as proof of God’s love for me. I proudly boasted in the steps God had walked me through and saw myself as called to “free” and “heal” others also.

But then, my symptoms began to return. I tried to convince myself what I was experiencing were isolated and unrelated incidents. I brushed aside what I walked through, even as I saw God meet me there powerfully. However, one day all the little triggers culminated in massive waves and I could no longer deny the presence of what I’d prided myself in as being miraculously healed.

Second Corinthians 4: 11 (ESV) says: “For we who live are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our mortal flesh.” The return of Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder was truly God’s gift to birth more of Jesus in me. It hasn’t been, and still isn’t, a pretty or pain-free process because for the new to come the old has to be exposed and laid to rest. 

One of the first steps of surrender came as God called me to leave my legalistic church and to sever friendships with those I was enabling in their sin in the name of “grace”. He took me off my pedestal of pride and exposed me as the one in desperate need of grace. He led me to open and then close online ministries, to expose my own legalistic mindset and idolization of self and serving, so I could learn to embrace true relationship with Him and others again.

It has been and still is a painful process of surrender, of me slowly learning to trust my God. Of me learning to take up my Cross, to face my fears and feel pain again. But I am discovering so much freedom and joy, as God is patiently teaching me how to engage again. How to stop hurting my loved ones by defensively detaching and instead speak the truth for grace to flow. He is teaching me anew to receive His Word in love. In sharing my weakness, confessing my sins and baring my heart openly within the safe boundaries He has laid down for me, I am daily experiencing deeper healing.

God has exposed a hunger and thirst in me for what only He can give me. Not for the cold law that was used to shame and humiliate me in my need as a child and as a returning Prodigal, but the love and compassion of a merciful Father, Friend and Counselor, who sees, knows and loves me like no other. A God who never shuns me or turns me away in my confession of weakness or sin.

I no longer pridefully claim to know the steps to freedom for myself or for others. Like Mary DeMuth, I am learning that “The sanctification journey takes more than instantaneous now. It takes time. It twists and moves and steps forward and backward, in circles and oblongs.” (Pray Every Day app devotional, 31 March 2019). I am learning that God alone can transform and heal me and others, day by day. For only He can transform our formulaic, legalistic mindsets into the humble mind of Christ. Only He can draw us into the beauty and compassionate mystery of loving, transformational relationship with Him and others.

And he called unto him his disciples, and saith unto them, Verily I say unto you, That this poor widow hath cast more in, than all they which have cast into the treasury: For all they did cast in of their abundance; but she of her want did cast in all that she had, even all her living.
Mark 12:43‭-‬44 KJV

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  1. Oh yes I am finding this to be so true also. Only Jesus can walk me thru these places of pain, one step at a time. HE is our safe place, showing us how His protection is so much better than anything we could strive to provide on our own. I am so very thankful for your words and friendship, Anna!


    April 1, 2019
    • Amen. HE is our safe place! And yes, He does a much better job than what we could ever offer ourselves- so true. So very thankful for you too, Bettie. Love you. xxx

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      April 1, 2019
  2. Athira #

    I can see a strong power in your words..Its the power from the one above..And that power will give you more strength to overcome all the pains+
    Thank you for sharing your writings with us.
    Jesus loves you!


    April 1, 2019
    • Thank you for the encouragement, Athira. He loves you too. I think pain will always be present this side of heaven, but the beauty is that feeling the pain is what invites Jesus in and releases His joy, comfort and hope in us.

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      April 1, 2019
  3. Just as the pain you’ve gone through came through words – rashly, foolishly, hastily spoken, your healing comes through words – wisely, lovingly, gently expressed. The writer of Proverbs knew how words can crush – or heal. Thanks for sharing your story.
    Careless [Chattering] words stab like a sword, but ·wise words bring [L a wise tongue brings] healing. Proverbs 12:18
    As a tree gives fruit, healing words give life [L A healthy/healing tongue is a tree of life], but dishonest [deceitful; perverse] words crush the spirit. Proverbs 15:4
    Pleasant words are like ·a honeycomb [liquid honey], ·making people happy and healthy [L sweet to the taste and healing to the bones]. Proverbs 16:24 (EXB)
    Love you.


    April 1, 2019
    • Thank you for your sweet encouragement and for your love, prayers and grace. You are a gift to me, Lisa.


      April 1, 2019

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